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Being that you are a Physical Extension of that which is Non-physical.
You are here in this body because you chose to be here.
The basis of your life is Freedom; the purpose of your life is Joy.
You are a creator; you create with your every thought.
Anything that you can imagine is yours to be or do or have.
You are choosing your creations as you are choosing your thoughts.
The Universe adores you; for it knows your broadest intentions.
Relax into your natural Well-being. All is well. (Really it is!)
You are a creator of thoughtways on your unique path of joy.
Actions to be taken and money to be exchanged are by-products of your focus on joy.
You may appropriately depart your body without illness or pain.
You cannot die; you are Everlasting Life.
P.S. It is not necessary for even one other person to understand the Laws of the Universe in order for you to have a wonderful, happy, productive Life Experience for you are the attractor of your experience. Just you!
Quantum-Leap Life Coaching….If not now, when?
As you may already know, Life Coaching is a wonderful and rapidly growing profession that is profoundly different from consulting, mentoring, advice, therapy, or counseling.
The coaching process safely addresses specific personal and professional issues, projects, conflicts, business successes and strategy’s, general overall conditions and transitions in the client’s personal life, or profession, by examining what is going on right now.
By discovering what your obstacles, challenges or blocks might be, and choosing without hesitation, you can choose a Quantum Leap course of action to make your life be what you want it to be NOW. *All sessions are completely confidential
With 35 years of spiritual study, and as an intuitive empath Kate has been referred to as a "Walking Encyclopedia of Soul Wisdom." She has put that to good use as a Life/Career/Abundance Coach. If you aren’t enough before you achieve your dreams, you will not be enough after.
(For testimonials-click on “Guest Book” on the above toolbar)
*Member: Studio City, Universal City/North Hollywood Chamber of Commerce, and The Better Business Bureau.*
Call for your free consultation today; 818.760.0759
Email: guardianangelmgt@sbcglobal.net
(QLLC website currently under construction)
www.Quantum-LeapLifeCoaching.com
TO READ SAMPLE CHAPTERS FROM KATE’S NEW BOOK GO TO;
www.HuckleberryMemoirs.com
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Co-creators of Quantum-Hypnotherapy(tm), Kate Romero and Alex Sheafe C.Ht.
www.QuantumHypnotherapy2.com ,
"What are you unconsciously attracting?" Energy flows where "attention" goes. To explore what is living in your subconscious mind;
Introducing "Quantum Hypnotherapy(tm)
As an Adult Indigo With 35 years of Spiritual Study, Kate is a results Oriented Life/Career/Divinity Coach, Non Denominational Ordained Minister, Quantum Metaphysician and open channel whose primary focus is on Consciousness. She has joined forces with gifted certified hypnotherapist ALEX SHEAFE C.Ht., A Member of The American Hypnosis Association, and a member of The Hypnotists Union 472 to create exponential change in 100’s of lives through one 2 hour session of QH2.
As long as you realize that everything is energy, no matter what your personal belief system, together, Kate and Alex combine high quality hypnotherapy with high energy Intuitive Career/Life/Divinity Coaching to create radical change based on scientifically proven concepts also found in the feature film "THE SECRET."
This process not only works on 1. The Conscious Mind which rationalizes and makes reality fit its’ Life Script.
2. The Sub-Conscious or Child’s mind that has taken everything literally early on, and thirdly, QH2 works with the Super-Conscious which is the Spirit-Mind where all possibility lives. It is in the Super-Conscious that we reach your divine plan and remove all that is in the way of it’s manifestation through deep hypnosis and tapping the Super-Conscious, Sub-Conscious and Conscious Mind.
This new healing modality speeds breakthroughs and growth in Professional and Personal life exponentially.
There is nothing that Q. H. can not improve or remove, everything as ethereal as exploring inner child expression, past lives and connecting with passed on loved ones right down to matters as simple as remembering where you put something. All of this, even if life has you too numb to know.
The subconscious mind is the ever silent listener by our side. Every thought, word, instinct or deed is impressed upon our subconscious mind and played out in amazing detail. We assist you in reprogramming this silent listener toward your divine rights and true nature, which are; self Love, self acceptance, self forgiveness, self trust, prosperity, happiness, joy, & inner peace.
With your permission, we remove the blocks that keep your natural essence from coming forward.
We bring you back to your divinity and bring forward only the wisdom from painful lessons and experiences of your past.
The client is in complete control during the session and will do nothing that is against his or her morals, ethics or better judgment. It is completely safe. Every life-transforming thought is accepted only with the client’s permission and willingness for change.
Go to www.QuantumHypnotherapy2.com for more info and call 818.760.0759 to book your appointment. Gift certificates also available. We do make house calls within a 25 mile radius if needed.
QUANTUM-HYPNOTHERAPY TESTIMONIAL OF THE DAY:
Hi Kate and Alex,
I just wanted to touch base with both of you and give you an update on my husband Dana and our son Jeffrey.
I have noticed such a change in Dana, although he doesn’t seem to realize it! He has not had a bad dream or a dream about the past in two weeks! He seems to be much more at peace and not so angry. He is also more sensitive and caring with me! Although Dana has not listened to The Secret nighttime CD you have him, I have been listening to it for the past two weeks and feel great! Dana did, however, finally watch The Secret DVD with me the other night, which is something he has been putting off for months!
Jeffrey is also doing well. He got his first B ever on a test in Language class last week! He is in the middle of SAT testing in school this week and is not showing any signs of anxiety at all. He ran in a relay race last week in P.E. and blew the other kids away. He said that he was not nervous at all! Also, when I tell him I love him every night, as I have always done, he is responding back with "I love you, too." You have to understand that he has never been comfortable saying these words to me or anyone else. He is also returning hugs with real hugs! His Sister Melissa is enjoying Jeffrey’s responses to her, as well.
I hope both of you have a blessed day. Will be in touch
Julie Hanson and Family
Pismo Beach, Ca.
Kate has been referred to by renowned Intuitive Healer "TERENE" as a "Walking Encyclopedia of Soul Wisdom." She has put that to good use as a Life/Career/Divinity Coach, Intuitive Mediator, Relationship Coach, Spiritual, Motivational & Soul Blueprint Coach.
As you may already know, Life Coaching is a wonderful and rapidly growing profession that is profoundly different from consulting, mentoring, advice, therapy, or counseling. The coaching process safely addresses specific personal projects or conflicts, business successes and strategy’s, general overall conditions and transitions in the client’s personal life (as all things are connected), relationships or profession by examining what is going on right now, discovering what your obstacles or challenges might be, and choosing without hesitation or blocks, a course of action to make your life be what you want it to be NOW.
Walter S.
Kate Romero has literally changed my life. I was so comfortable with my blocks that I didn’t realize that I had them.
As a result of Kate’s coaching I have a new and positive lease on life and abundance started to appear the very day of my first coaching. She is wise beyond her years, compassionate and caring.
If you value yourself and your life you owe it to yourself to be coached by Kate. Her intuitive abilities are truly extraordinary.
If only our world leaders could take her coaching this would be a truly enlightened world.
Walter S.
Film Producer
Kate will help you work on your visions, Distinguish your hearts calling, develop strategies, and hold you accountable for action steps toward your every goal.
To be loyal to your journey is to care for yourself deeply, and to remember at your center, you are "luminous" essence capable of compassion, love and greatness beyond your own imaginings.
Many of us are as a jewel buried in the mud beside a road.
Using the jewel imagery, we can recall that the beautiful gemstone is radiant and shining with many facets. Unless someone digs it up, and washes off the mud, it can not shine or be appreciated.
Many of us have a covering over the jewel inside of us...false beliefs and negative thoughts about ourselves that block connection to our perfect essence.
Kate will exhume and bring out the beautiful jewel that you are, and reveal to you the many facets of your true nature.
To begin PRIVATE sessions with Kate, and for Corporate or Group rates please call 818.760.0759 for details.
To see Coaching and Course **testimonials** click on "GUESTBOOK" on the above toolbar.
To see what Classes and groups are saying about Kate’s Coaching see the following:
THIS ONE WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE, CAREER and APPROACH TO EVERY AUDITION YOU GO ON!!!
Katie is an amazing Life Coach, Career Coach and Manager. She develops careers for her clients helping them figure out the best ways to market themselves. She will do this w/ each of you. Katie will watch your work, help you w/ all of your marketing materials and help you find the best you that there can be. I know that because she has helped me. You will not leave this workshop the same!! You can find articles about Katie on inspiremagazine.com, and guardianangelmanagement.com.
You will grow and book so much more! There is limited enrollment and Katie asked that I personally pre screen everyone signing up for this class. It is an amazing gift that she is giving us and only the most dedicated people should come!!
Melissa Bacelar-
The Network Studio
www.thenetworkstudio.com.
You, by virtue of having been born, are completely lovable, loved, likeable, liked, worthy, and worthwhile just for being who you are right now.
Investing in YOU is the very first step in the journey of having your life, career, and relationships any way you want them to be. Most are able to begin turning their lives around in the "very first session"...it happens every day. If you are stable and coachable, RESULTS GUARANTEED.
Coaching Style:
Every single miracle in the history of mankind is quite simply an extension of the Law of Attraction in action.
The importance of coaching:
All successful Actors, Athletes, Corporate heads, Politicians etc...have direct and honest Coaches who provide the quickest route to stepping out of ones own way. There are so many things that we don’t realize we don’t know that run our lives. Things that we would choose not to do if we knew they were there. Kate’s approach is to get right to the heart of the block. Kate’s concepts and philosophy have been instrumental in assisting the most Elite Entertainment Industry Professionals such as Celebrities, Writers, Directors, Acting Coaches, Agents, Managers, Producers, and those from all walks of life.
Kate’s brand of coaching isn’t about a particular Career, it is about what
is important to you in life. You can’t transform one without the other. We
show up in our career in similar ways that we are showing up in
life, and vice versa. There are so many things that we don’t realize we
don’t know that run our lives. Kate will guide you to physical, spiritual and emotional fitness with a
tried and true common sense approach. See "GUESTBOOK" on the tool bar for the Testimonials page.
Kate will introduce you to the scientifically proven concepts of Quantum Physics and The Law of Attraction.
If F.E.A.R (false evidence appearing real) runs your life..you will also attract more of the same everywhere.
What many do not real-eyes is; as long as we keep being who we authentically are, we will eventually attract those who will appreciate our very unique fingerprint and want us to add it to their lives.
The rub for many is to love themselves enough to care about finding their authentic self. "You" are the one you have been waiting for.
Supporting, respecting, and believing in that compass takes courage, faith, belief, spirit, and strength of charactor.
This simple, yet illusive concept has existed throughout the history of mankind. The Law of Attraction has been discovered, coveted, suppressed, hidden, lost, and discovered again. It has been sought after, hunted down, stolen, quashed, and bought for vast sums of money.
A number of exceptional men and women discovered the Law of Attraction and they have become renowned as the greatest people who ever lived. Among them, Plato, Leonardo, Galileo, Napoleon, Hugo, Beethoven, Lincoln, Edison, Einstein, Ford, Carnegie... the list goes on and on.
Evident in the oral traditions, literature and teachings of civilizations, religions and philosophies around the world and throughout time, the Law of Attraction is only now being validated by the latest cutting edge quantum physics. The Law of Attraction is without doubt the real deal!
The Law of Attraction is the key to absolutely everything anyone could ever want. No matter whom you are, no matter where you are right now, no matter what you want... when you know the Law of Attraction you can have anything:
You can have perfect health throughout your life.
You can have all the money you want.
You can do all the things you want to do.
You can achieve all the things you want to achieve.
You can be, feel and look as young as you desire.
You can find love and the perfect partner.
You can turn every relationship into the perfect relationship.
You can make every decision in your life the right one, every single time.
You can find the solution to every problem and the answer to every question.
You can make every day the perfect day.
You can make every wish you have come true.
For among many things, the Law of Attraction teaches that
"YOU are the creator of your life experience."
As quoted by David Cameron Gikandi
(www.imagesofone.com),
"The power is within you as a function of universal law (and validated by quantum mechanics) to attract into your experience all that you give your attention to."
In other words, whatever you think about, you bring about.
Please check out the classes and courses page for information on upcoming opportunities in a class room setting. We will be happy to answer any and all questions you may have.
Begin attracting what you want your life and career to be today.
Kate’s personal philosophy;
If you want to see your dreams come true....simply open your eyes.*
(c)2005
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Kate became ordained on December 5th, 2005, so that she may contribute on a higher level to the couples she coaches by performing their marriage ceremonies.
Kate’s philosophy; "Relationships aren’t here to make us happy as much as they are here to get us conscious. Happiness is a by-product of becomming conscious."
When approaching any relationship as a class room, both people become one another’s best advocate in personal growth.
Growing up can be very daunting, which is why many of us avoid it.
Imagine what fun it would be to choose someone to grow up with, regardless of how long you have known them.
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THE ESSENCE OF FAITHFULNESS
THE essence of faithfulness lies first in holding correct opinions and attitudes toward the Ultimate. Remember that the divine order is intelligent and fundamentally good. Life is not a series of random, meaningless episodes, but an ordered, elegant whole that follows ultimately comprehensible laws.
The divine will exists and directs the universe with justice and goodness. Though it is not always apparent if you merely look at the surface of things, the universe we inhabit is the best possible universe.
FIX your resolve on expecting justice and goodness and order, and they will increasingly reveal themselves to you in all your affairs. Trust that there is divine intelligence whose intentions direct the universe. Make it your utmost goal to steer your life in accordance with the will of divine order.
WHEN you strive to conform your intentions and actions with the divine order, you don’t feel persecuted, helpless, confused, or resentful toward the circumstances of your life. You will feel strong, purposeful, and sure.
FAITHFULNESS is not blind belief; it consists of steadfastly practicing the principle of shunning those things which are not within your control, leaving them to be worked out according to the natural system of responsibilities. Cease trying to anticipate or control events. Instead accept them with grace and intelligence.
IT is impossible to remain faithful to your ordained purpose if you drift into imagining that those things outside your power are inherently good or evil.
When this happens the habit of blaming outside factors for our lot in life inevitably sets in, and we lose ourselves in a negative spiral of envy, strife, disappointment, anger, and reproach. For by nature all creatures recoil from the things they think would do them harm and seek out and admire those things that seem good and helpful.
THE second aspect of faithfulness is the importance of prudently observing the customs of your family, your country, and local community. Perform your community’s rituals with a pure heart, without greed or extravagance. In doing so, you join the spiritual order of your people and further the ultimate aspirations of humanity.
FAITHFULNESS is the antidote to bitterness and confusion and it confers the conviction that we are ready for anything the divine will intends for us. Your aim should be to view the world as an integrated whole, to faithfully incline your whole being toward the highest good, and to adopt the will of nature as your own."
--EPICTETUS--
A slave from thousands of years ago. Simply Amazing.
"Ten Steps for Making a Major Life Change"
As human beings, we’re creatures of habit. No wonder making a major life
change is so hard! But it can be done. Follow these steps to get your
change in motion, one easy step at a time:
1. Identify the price of maintaining the status quo. Not making the change
you know you need to make is costing you. Do some soul searching; consult
with trusted allies, or journal to yourself to uncover the payoffs you’re
receiving, and the prices you’re paying for maintaining the status quo.
When you get that the price of not making the change is greater than the
payoff, you’ll be more committed to moving forward.
2. Create a reserve of everything. We don’t always have to make a
difficult change from where we are now. If we have issues with money,
time, space, emotional support, skills, etc., make a plan now to get more
than you need in these areas, creating a stronger foundation from which to
launch in your new direction. Keep in mind that it’s better to be
over-prepared and arrive at your destination than to fail because you were
just a hair short of having what you needed to get there.
3. Forgive self-judgments. Guilt is rampant in our culture. So is the
vendetta against selfishness. Suffering is supported and nurtured by
friends, family, religions, etc. So it’s not surprising that many of us,
deep down, don’t feel we deserve to have what we want. For example, maybe
you feel you’re not good enough or deserving of the life you really want.
Or maybe you feel that the change you’re about to make will hurt someone
close to you. Or you may feel that you’re not smart enough, resourceful
enough, bold enough, or just plain "enough" to make this change.
Acknowledge these judgments, then forgive yourself for holding these false
perceptions about who you really are. Because the truth is, they are only
ideas, many of which are irrational, and you will create yourself each
moment based on the new idea you hold about who you are.
4. Stop complaining. Are you complaining about being in the situation
you’re in? Are you blaming others? Or have you accepted full
responsibility for your situation and just beat yourself up for not making
the change? If any of the above are true, you are playing the victim and
you’re forfeiting your power to make the change you say you want. Even if
you’re blaming yourself for not being happy or for not having the courage
to make the change, then part of you is beating up on another part of
yourself, hence there’s a victim in there somewhere. To the degree you
play the role of victim, you lose power you could be using to move
forward. So get behind yourself completely and own your full power to
create the life you desire, no matter what.
5. Give up analysis that breeds paralysis. We are so conditioned to figure
things out before we leap, that sometimes we become paralyzed to take the
actions our bodies are directed to take from the beginning. Ask yourself
if
you are the kind of person who experiences the world more through analysis
than
through feeling. If you’re stuck in a thinking pattern rehashing the same
ideas over and over, trying to figure out what will happen, then you’re
stuck in a mind-loop. It’s time to quit thinking and start doing. Feel in
your body what it wants to do, then just do it! The information you’re
seeking may only be available after you take action anyway. Wisdom often
comes from experience, not from analysis.
6. Develop a compelling vision. Leaving a longstanding relationship or a
long-time career can be very frightening. This is because if what we have
is all we see, then to give it up means we’ll have nothing left. This is a
terrible illusion. New opportunities, relationships, resources,
connections, and ideas always rush in to fill space in our lives. But
first, you have to make the space for something new, and second, create a
clear vision of what your life will look like once your change is
complete. The vision of your new future eliminates the fear of the
unknown--which can keep you stuck for a long time! Your vision will form
the matrix on which you will create your new life and give you the
inspiration and courage you need to move on.
7. Risk failure. Does your fear of failing keep you stuck? If so, define
what failure looks like to you. Imagine the worst possible thing
happening. Can you live with that? Can you make course corrections before
it happens or after it happens? The answer is almost always "yes." So,
please, do yourself a favor, remove the word "failure" from your
vocabulary. Realize that each action simply yields a result--one you want
or one you don’t want. Use this as feedback from the universe and take the
next logical step. From this perspective, mistakes are just indications of
a course correction and not to be taken personally. Pilots are checking
their compass all the time and making course corrections based on this
feedback. They’d never get anywhere if they took every off-course reading
as a personal failure. Give up the concept of failure and take flight!
8. Recruit your inner warrior. Within each of us there is an instinctual
aspect built for bold, decisive action. It looks out, not only for our
survival, but also for our soul’s mission. It sends messages in the form
of feelings in your body. They may come as "gut" feelings, or just a sense
of "knowing" that has no rational foundation. If you’re facing a difficult
change, and have "contemplated" yourself into a corner, it may be time to
let your inner warrior take over for a while. Just act "as if" you "know"
what to do, then do it without thinking about it until after it’s done.
9. Get support to help you through the change. Big life changes can be
overwhelming. There’s no shame in asking for help from friends, relatives,
or from a coach. In fact, enough of the right kind of support can make a
seemingly difficult change, relatively easy. For me, being a former
lone-ranger, asking for and accepting help from others was difficult at
first, but really nice once I got used to it. Now I wouldn’t think of
starting a major project or making a big change without relying on my
support system of close and loving friends, and my coach. Do whatever is
necessary to make change easy on yourself. You’re worth it!
10. Don’t go to your deathbed wondering what would have happened if....
It’s easy for us to forget how short our lives really are. Many of us live
as if we’ll never die. We waste away our hours and days working jobs we
hate, living just for the weekends, or "putting in time" until retirement,
living most of our lives like zombies. We may live in a relationship that
is draining and disemboweling thinking it might magically get better
somehow, someday. We deny our feelings or make excuses for frittering our
lives away. This is insane. Stop it now! Our lives are so precious and so
short. I challenge you to project yourself forward to your death. It’s
real and it’s coming for you! See yourself on your deathbed and ask
yourself if the life you’re living now is all you dreamt it to be. Write
your own obituary today. How close are you to living your passion? Let
this vision be a motivator to get off your butt and follow your dreams!
Contributed by Steve Davis
“Imagine what you might do if you had no fear!”
Today, I wish for you to recognize fear in your life and send it away. Fear is a bully and if you face him down he has no choice but to run. He will run before strength and action. He will run before faith and perseverance. He will even run before patience.
Fear loves the dark. He loves to hide in dark recesses under various disguises. Sometimes he is called Tension or Anxiety. Worry is one of his favorite names. Shyness is another. Apathy and Boredom are some very secret names that he has.
You wish to live your life full of action and engagement, embracing life with zest and vigor. If you are not, dig a little deeper, shine the light of your love and life and see where fear is lurking, hiding in the darkness along with his sidekick Doubt. Shine the bright light of Self-Love and Faith on them. And then act. Do what you fear, over and over, and Fear will disappear from your life.
Imagine, just imagine, what you might do with this precious life of yours if you had no fear! Yes, this is the way to live. And you have it within your power to do so.
Here is a little prayer for today
Today, I live in the full light of my life. I am full of the light from my higher self, which gives me direction and purpose. I am full of zest and energy. I am inspired by life each moment and see the many possibilities which sparkle all around me.
Today, I recognize my own strength and power and have the courage to do things I have never done before. I am full of belief, both in myself and my abilities and in the help which surrounds me at every turn.
I am courageous, strong and capable and I can do whatever it is I wish to do.
I am power. I am belief. I am courage. I am.
“I open myself to myself.”
Today, I wish you to see yourself clearly and find ways to express what you see, feel and know as yourself.
For so long now you have been canceling yourself out, compromising and editing before you have even uttered a word. You are trained by parents, friends, teachers and coworkers, all of the people with whom you have associated, to think and act in a certain way, and to express yourself in ways which are deemed acceptable.
The result, too often, is that you have no idea what you really think or feel. You may have lost touch with much of your inner truth.
The self-expression we seek here is not expression of pent-up anger and frustration. What we seek is the truth deep inside, the place in your solar plexus which feels calm and comfortable when you are within your rightness, the place in your heart which opens wide when you have given expression to your truth. This is what we are seeking: an open expression of the deepest truth within you.
It may take some seeking to find, but if you quiet your mind and allow your body to feel its way along, you will find wondrous things inside you, just waiting to be expressed.
Here is a Little Prayer for today
Today, I ask my mind to be still as I open myself to the wonder of my own presence and being. I invite my higher self to reside fully within me and to give me awareness of my deepest essence.
Today, I am aware of this presence within me. I feel it in my center, my solar plexus, as a warm comforting pool of peace, which feels calm, settled and stable when I am acting out of my deepest integrity with myself.
Today, I am aware of my heart and open it wide. I open myself to myself and allow myself to express what is the greatest and deepest essence of my loving presence, my essential being, which is love.
I am connected to my own truth. I am connected to my heart of love. I know who I am and allow myself to find expression. I am.
Contributed by Carrie Hart
Reflections On The Principles
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.
We ask ourselves, "Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?"
Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God.
Your playing small doesn’t serve the world.
There’s nothing enlightened about shrinking so that
other people won’t feel insecure around you.
We are all meant to shine, as children do.
We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us.
It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone.
And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give
other people permission to do the same.
As we’re liberated from our own fear,
our presence automatically liberates others.
~by Marianne Williamson
in A Return to Love: Reflections On The Principles of A Course In Miracles,
p. 165, HarperCollins, 1992
Often misattributed to Nelson Mandela who supposedly quoted Ms. Williamson in his 1994 Inaugural Address (although I can’t find evidence of that).
“Define success and prosperity on your own terms”
Rather than be a victim of the society in which you live, you can choose to be aware of it and its rules, so that you can prosper within it, but you also need to define success and prosperity on your own terms.
You are bombarded by messages and images which are aimed at making you dissatisfied with yourself. Their purpose is to compel you to spend money or hand over allegiance. Their promises of wealth and power are designed to increase the wealth and power of other people, not you.
Today, be aware of this. When you feel that longing and dissatisfaction, look at what is causing it. Is it coming from your core of peace and rightness? No, it is coming from television and magazines and is calculated to make you feel dissatisfied, longing to be other than what you are, desiring to lose weight, have plastic surgery, buy expensive clothing, a grand house and car. It is calculated to make you think that you are unworthy unless you have achieved these status symbols of success.
It is your job to define prosperity on your own terms. It is your job to see these images for what they are, and build a life which is based on love, compassion and respect, both for yourself and for others. It is your job to nurture your spiritual foundation and build a peaceful center within, a center which will withstand the setbacks and obstacles which are a natural part of life and growth, making you stronger as you meet each challenge.
Find out what is truly important to you, what feeds your deepest core, what builds you up inside, and follow this, do this, no matter what anyone else says, no matter what society directs. You are fully responsible for your life and you can make it beautiful and fulfilling, your interior world a safe harbor you turn to and your outer world a loving gift.
Here is a little prayer for today
Today, I live from the inside out, nurturing my inner core, filling myself with peace.
Today I am delighted to be who I am, exactly as I am. I know that I am exactly who I should be, standing exactly where I should stand. And I see the path stretching ahead sparkling with possibility and opportunity.
I am at peace with all that I have been and done, am deeply centered in who I am right now and look forward with peace to the next step I will take.
I am so glad to be me and living my life, that I give thanks, deep thanks, for each breath I take.
I am beauty and perfection just as I am. I am at peace. I am.
Contributed by: Carrie Hart
“Come into now and own it”
Take responsibility for everything in your life. Take responsibility for every bit of anger or frustration you feel. Instead of blaming others or your past self for the situation you now find yourself in, come into that situation, accept that it is what it is, look at it honestly and openly, and then take complete responsibility for the action necessary to resolve it and move it forward.
Nothing is made better through frustration and anger. Realize that much of what you attribute to others is a reflection back of your own attitudes. If you are angry at someone for being so critical of you, realize that this is a form of criticism and judgment coming from you. And the best way to reduce the criticism coming from someone else is to release your own, to just accept them as they are, allowing them to be, perhaps even reaching out in a positive way. You will be amazed at how your lack of criticism, anger and frustration will reduce it in everyone around you.
And if someone else does need to adjust what they are doing or saying, if their negative attitude does not respond to your own personal adjustment, then try compassionate and direct communication. First, spend time alone, breathing quietly and connecting with your higher self. Then reach up and across to their higher self and connect in love. And in this state of love and connection, ask: How shall I approach this person, this situation? And then jot down the answer which comes, if it comes in vision, words, a feeling or a knowing. It is there, if you will allow it to be.
Then follow the direction you have been given, even if it requires you to be exceptionally brave or to open up new ways of relating and being.
You are responsible for your response, no matter what. You are responsible for resolving the situations in which you find yourself. Release the past, come into now, and own it.
Here is a little prayer for today
I am centered completely into now, this moment, and what it contains. I look at it clearly and objectively, allowing my life situation to be and acknowledging it for what it is.
I connect deeply and lovingly with all people in my life. I connect with them and know them through love.
And from this knowledge of the situation and the people within it, I take action, compassionate yet direct, guided by my center of truth.
I am peaceful. I am loving. I am responsible. I am.
Marketing Magic
If you are like most people, you probably have a constant desire to get
ahead in life, personally or in your business or career. Here, we shall look
at two areas of life and how you can make them happen faster and more
powerfully successful. The two areas we shall look at are marketing and
product or business development. Whether you are employed or self-employed,
you are always marketing something. You market yourself, your skills, your
products or your business. And no matter what you are, you are always
developing. You develop yourself, your products or your business. Now, let
us look at a magical process you can use to get ahead in marketing or any
area of development.
Step 1
Reasons are what empower us to achieve. Without reasons, your life lacks
meaning, feels empty and is characterized by lack. So first find out the
real reasons you wish to succeed at any marketing or development venture.
Find out why you wish to develop or market yourself, your business or your
products and services. Why do you wish to do it? Your first answer may be
’to make a lot of money’. Ask yourself again. Why do you wish to have a lot
of money? You may find that you would like the money to travel, invest, buy
things, explore opportunities, have freedom, or make certain contributions.
Make a written list of reasons why you wish to have the money. The reason
you make this list is that the world around you comes from your thoughts.
Look at your life as it has been throughout your past. Remember also the
thoughts that used to preoccupy you in your past. Remember your dreams,
fears, aspirations, and preoccupations. Do you see how strongly related your
life has been to your thoughts? You will notice a definite link. Life
situations arise from images of the mind. They are the mind expressed and
manifested into the physical. Keep these reasons that you have listed above
at all times. Keep these reasons in mind and let them form images. Play with
these reasons, get into them, visualize and fantasize, get excited about
them, and be grateful that they will definitely come true by universal law!
Feel how it would feel if they all came true. In your mind, experience them
as reality, and notice the quality of the energy you would feel if they were
they in your physical life now. Then always remember this feeling all the
time. In other words, as you go throughout your day, feel as if you had
accomplished all these reasons, and keep their vision in mind; this is what
attracts them to you in your physical world. Right now, start being the
person you would be if you had already achieved your goals.
Step 2
Now let us get back to marketing and development. Why do people get paid?
They get paid because of their knowledge. Why do you pay an electrician to
fix your electrical items? Because he or she has knowledge on electrical
items. Why do you not pay a doctor to fix your radio? Because a doctor does
not have knowledge to fix radios. Here is the point: knowledge applied is
what raises money in cash. It is what converts wealth consciousness into
cash wealth. So what kind of knowledge gets paid for? Any knowledge that
improves people’s finances, health, relationships and happiness will earn
money. So the next step is to build knowledge, then find out how to apply it
to make the improvements we just mentioned.
To begin with, ask yourself what it is you wish to accomplish. Do you wish
to market an existing product? Do you wish to develop a new product? In what
area? Be clear in your question to yourself. You may be broad or specific,
as you wish, but be clear.
Once you have the question formulated clearly on paper and in your mind, it
is time to fins out how to achieve your new goal, find your new solution, or
discover your new marketing approach. There is no problem that does not have
a solution already waiting for it! The way to make new discoveries is this
way:
(a) Recognize that many new ideas are simply new arrangements of old
information. Therefore, gather all the information you can on your subject
of interest. This is a very important step and you must take it very
seriously. Get together general and specific information about your area of
interest. Open a new folder and put in material you get from the web,
magazines, people, books and so on. For example, if you are a BMW
salesperson and you wish to discover new markets and find new ways to sell
your BMWs, gather as much specific information as you can on BMW cars, their
history, mechanics, and so on. Also, gather general information about cars,
transportation, people, society, human behavior, safety, marketing,
entertainment, and so on. Then, gather information about existing
relationships between all the materials you have gathered (e.g. many people
buy BMWs for their security and lifestyle appeal - that is an example of a
relationship).
(b) Now it is time to do what many geniuses, scientists and artists do. Once
you have read through all your gathered materials, relax and let go. Do
absolutely nothing active in your mind with that information. Go play some
sports, watch TV, spend time with friends and family. Then go to bed. If
anything pops up in your mind regarding the subject, let it be. Don’t resist
it, but don’t get all caught up in it and encourage the thought. Just
observe it. Do not actively think about the subject. Keep the question
clearly in your mind by repeating it to yourself once in a while, but that’s
it. Let go and simply become aware of your mind and environment. The idea is
to get out of the way so that inspiration can come in. Your lower egoic mind
is too noisy and it will interfere and insist on certain solutions that will
simply turn out to be useless. Let your higher mind do the work. Let your
subconscious come in. Become an observer of yourself and your environment as
that is where the answer will pop up from. Don’t miss it by being absent
minded! Listen and watch your mind and your world. Every now and then, your
mind will throw out some new bits and insights on the subject. However small
they are, note them down on paper. You will also start seeing coincidental
mentions related to your subject in question. You will see these
coincidental mentions on TV, perhaps in the music you listen to, on
magazines you read, or in certain things people happen to say. Be alert and
whenever you see something that is related, follow it and see where it leads
you. You will be surprised at how many inventions and discoveries were found
this way. Edison (the guy who discovered the light bulb), for example,
discovered most of his hundreds of inventions by letting go once the
question was formed and seeing what pops up in his mind and environment. So
did Einstein and many artists, scientists, musicians and regular folk. Be
aware, alert, and record everything that pops up in you or outside you. Be
present - don’t! get abs ent minded. It is all in the Now. Everything new
comes from the Now as all things can only Be Here Now, and not in your
phantom world of the preoccupied mind. Slowly or rapidly, in whole or in
pieces, the new idea or solution will form and appear to you, often in the
moment you least expect. Stay positive but detached from a specific outcome.
Stay excited and grateful but not anxious. And most of all, don’t be
judgmental of whatever pops up. You see, judgment keeps a mind closed, and
presuming and insisting you know the best answer and process negates the
point of asking your deeper mind and universe for an optimal process and
answer. Follow your intuition.
Step 3
Find appropriate people to help you grow your new idea. An idea can only
grow as it is shared with the right people to help it grow. An idea not
shared dies. So, immediately, start finding support for your new idea. It
could be marketing professionals or firms, or consultants, or even just
friends and family.
Step 4
If you bump into a problem, know that within every problem lies the solution
and opportunity to find something important that is related to the goal. We
create problems or attract them to ourselves because of the magnificent
truths that they present to us if only we would be willing to focus on the
solution. Keep your focus on the opportunity and find ways to be the
solution. Be the solution. That is where the golden lessons lie. Ask
yourself ’how can I be the solution?’
Step 5
Be unique, persistent, believing and act now, here. You get rewarded in
direct proportion to your uniqueness. So stop hiding your uniqueness, trying
to blend in, and instead show your uniqueness. Things happen when you
believe in them, so believe in yourself and your idea. And 90% of success is
showing up, so show up and do it. Do or don’t, never try. And most of all
have fun with the whole process, not just the end of the goal. Success is
something you automatically attract by the person you become, and that is
why the process is where the juice is; the goal simply tricks you into
reaching out, into being willing to take the process.
If you follow the above process you can discover new things to move you
forward in any area of your life. Now the only thing left to do is to build
abundance consciousness within you and your life will take on a new and
powerful direction.
Contributed by: David Cameron Gikandi (www.imagesofone.com)
LOVE IS NOT SUPPOSED TO HURT
Questions and Answers:
I often feel sad in my relationship, what can I do about it?
I always feel like I’m walking on eggshells, is that normal?
I feel different from how I used to feel, like I’ve lost my sense of self. Why?
What can I do if my partner switches demeanors like Jekyll and Hyde?
How can I stop my significant other from humiliating me, degrading me, and putting me down?
Here are your answers:
I often feel sad in my relationship, what can I do about it?
If you feel sad in your relationship most, if not all of the time, then it is time that you really asked yourself if this relationship is bringing you joy MOST of the time. Get really honest with yourself, and tell yourself the truth. That’s the first place to start. Can you communicate with your partner? Is he or she responsive? Does he or she make an effort to really listen to you and honor your feelings or not?
If he or she is not, then that would explain why you feel sad most of the time, because you have valid feelings, and they are not being honored. So first YOU have to honor your feelings, and then take a good, clear look at the way the relationship is RIGHT NOW, the way it is MOST of the time, not the few times you experience joy, but the majority of the time. If you are in pain “often” and most of the time, then you have to find the courage to either really work it out with your partner, and if you cannot, because your needs and feelings are not really honored, then it is time that YOU honored your feelings, and know one thing: that you do not have to remain miserable. You can get professional counseling together, and really open up. If he or she is not willing to do that with you, then he or she is not willing to make it work with you. So what are your two options? Stay miserable, or make a complete break so that you can heal, and then attract a new partner that will be extremely good to you. This is your choice, so please do what you know in your heart is true for you.
I always feel like I’m walking on eggshells, is that normal?
No, it is not normal, it is painful, and love is NOT supposed to hurt! Who told you that you have to put up with uncertainty, and living with a person that causes you to feel like a nervous wreck, always wondering if you are going to set him or her off? This is living with sickness. “Normal” people openly discuss whatever is bothering them, and come to mutually agreeable solutions.
In a normal relationship, one that is sane, you feel free to be yourself completely. You are never worried about “getting it wrong” or “messing up” because you know that you are loved and respected, cared about, adored, and that your feelings matter as much as your mates.
If you feel like you are walking on eggshells, then I wholeheartedly advise you to walk out of the relationship, and leave the broken shells of bad memories behind you, where they belong. No one can do this “for” you. This is your life, and only you can decide if this is the life you really want to live, and what you really prefer in a relationship, or if you would prefer something a lot more loving, where you feel safe, rather than constantly worried.
I do promise you that once you get really honest with yourself, and honor your real feelings, you are on the road to a much happier life, and you can do a lot of reading, inner healing, restoring, and coming into a place within where you become your own best friend. It is then that you will be ready to attract someone into your life who has the capacity to treat you the way any human being deserves to be treated. Where the only eggshells you see are when he brings you breakfast, because he or she loves you.
I feel different from how I used to feel, like I’ve lost my sense of self. Why?
Why? The answer is because you are being treated more like an object where if something goes wrong it is blamed on you, rather than being respected completely without blame and criticism.
If you feel like you have lost your sense of self, then you have probably been twisting yourself in every conceivable direction to be or feel good enough for the person that you are with. Are you told what to do? Are you watched? Yelled at? Insulted? Put down? Criticized?
When we have been put down, we do feel our real self somehow sliding away, especially in an emotionally and verbally abusive relationship. Sometimes we don’t even notice it happening. We just begin to feel less confident, less desirable, less than we used to feel. This is what abuse does, it chips away at our sense of self, and before long, we’ve forgotten what it feels like to feel whole and complete and good enough again.
So if you’re with someone that treats you in a degrading manner, someone that puts you down, someone that is kind and then mean, back and forth, then it’s time to get off the see saw and plant yourself on solid ground with a firm decision as to what you are going to allow in your life, and how you are going to allow yourself to be treated.
You must decide how you really want to be treated, and only settle for that. You are NOT here to be degraded. No human being deserves to be degraded. So in order to gain your sense of self back, you have to know what you want, what you prefer, how you would rather feel, and put yourself in the position to walk away completely from anyone that treats you less than how you know you want to be treated.
When a person has clear boundaries, they do not allow them to be crossed. Your boundaries are your preferences. Create your boundaries, and you will be able to begin to feel a sense of what you really deserve. Then, only settle for that and nothing less, ever.
What can I do if my partner switches demeanors like Jekyll and Hyde?
Sister, (or Brother) run for your life, and never look back! Just keep going forward in one clear direction, far, far away from this person, because if you don’t then YOU will feel like you are going insane.
You cannot fix or heal another person’s psychological issues to your own detriment. Jekyll and Hyde is living with insanity, which will only make YOU feel insane. And I really mean what I say here.
How can I stop my boyfriend from humiliating me, degrading me, and putting me down?
You can’t, dear one. He or she are.. the way they are. The question is when are you going to walk? How much more do you have to be humiliated, degraded and put down? Do you want to take it for a few more minutes, weeks, what about another ten years? Some people take it for the rest of their lives. Others leave at the first sign of abuse. Right after the first humiliating, degrading put down. They leave because they know this is the person’s nature, and we cannot change another person. If someone is an abuser, they give abuse. Do you give abuse? No, you do not. Do you give it in self defense? If you are continuing to allow abuse in your life, this is a very sad life to live.
To better answer your question, the only way you can stop your significant other from humiliating you, degrading you, and putting you down is when you end your relationship with this person. Until that time, expect more of the same. Has it permanently changed? Does he or she change for a few days, maybe a week or so, only to go back to the same old pattern? If your answer is yes, then you can expect the same pattern to continue, as surely as you can expect that an apple tree will continue to give you apples. It will not give you bananas, or peaches. Its nature will not change.
For all of the above questions and answers, I ask you to consider emotional and verbal abuse as if you had your hand in a pot of boiling water. Some people have asked me: "But isn’t it okay to just take a little? No one is perfect." So my reply is in asking you a question. If you took your hand out of boiling water, isn’t it okay to just put back one finger? It’s just one finger, not the whole hand. Abuse hurts, just like one finger kept in boiling water.
I must assure you that love is not supposed to hurt. Love feels wonderful. It feels safe, steady, certain, and predictable. “Excitement” comes from going away together, not from break-up, make-up sex.
Love is the most beautiful and wonderful experiences on earth. Everybody deserves to experience real love. I hope that you will allow yourself to experience what it feels like to begin to love yourself. Then, and only then, will you be able to attract someone into your life who will love you the way you want to be loved. It is first an inside job, between you and yourself. Then you can experience this with another person, as this is the essence of what every human being on earth wants to feel, and with enough self love, every person one day will.
© Contributed by: Barbara Rose
www.borntoinspire.com
The Rose Group - Uplifting the Heart Mind & Soul of Humanity
More resources:
http://www.borntoinspire.com/id6.html
http://www.inspiremagazine.info/id29.html
inspire! magazine – links http://www.inspiremagazine.info/id15.html
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